All the parents of the toddlers are sitting in the water while the kids play and splash around. Just watching not playing, chasing after even. II have a lot to be proud of. My kids are confident and fearless and happy and I created that.
So back to my original question? Yes, my life NOW is for my kids. I played and had fun when I was little - it's their turn to be little - have fun and make memorable adventures. I get the pleasure of helping to create those valuable & life long memories!!!
I get to watch them have fun and TODAY I'm ok with that and enjoying them.
Here wishing you the same clarity.... Happy summer